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Monday, February 2, 2009

Day 10 - unconditional love

Day 10 was on Friday.. so I have 3 days of blogging to catch up on... but I will start with this one... I learned that there are three types of love. Phileo -Friendship, eros - sexual, then there is agape love - sickness and in health kinda love... for richer or for poorer kinda love, for better or worse kinda love. The kind of love that is true love. The kind of love that God loves us with. That is what I want for me and my husband. I must say... though.. I am only 1/4 through this book and I have seen a HUGE difference in my home. There is a calmness - that stems all the way through to everyone. I have even seen my son taking HUGE steps in watching his attitude. Brandon is fabulious and I see him smiling more. There is more laughter - less yelling, more hugs, less door slamming, there is more talking things through and explaining - less claming up. It is totally amazing what happens when you let go and let God handle things completely instead of trying to sort it all out yourself.

For my love dare, I was to do something that proves that my love is based on my choice and nothing else... something that I dont normally do. examples..wash the car, clean the kitchen, fold laundry..... SO... (dont laugh) I decided that I would .....put my check in the bank instead of carrying it around with me for 4 days and him finally asking where it was so he can do it. I texted him when I did it.. he was SHOCKED! hahahahaha...

He who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him .. Psalm 32:10

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